Routine Interrupted

On February 16, 2020 Stephanie died unexpectedly at her home. My producer and I were the ones who found her. We did not think that we would continue with our documentary, but her friends, who had known about our film, reached out to us and asked us to complete it for Stephanie. Her love and devotion for Bryce was defined by her determination to instill independence and confidence despite his severe autism. I can still hear her voice praising Bryce: Good job, Son. She created Maine-Tex Grilled Salsa with Bryce to teach her son life skills, give him a foundation for success, and to show first-hand what people with autism can accomplish. I went from dressing up each day to fight autism to being covered in tomatoes every day. If it is meant to be, it is up to me. Stephanie lost her mother at an early age, and all she wanted was to fill that void. Without family she created a large community that supported and celebrated her. The community lives on and is now caring for Bryce. Stephanie was upfront, sincere, and adamant about what was most important to her. Her friends referred to her as “warrior momma” who fought for Bryce every turn. Her humor and persistence were her weapons. Routine Interrupted teaches us that the connection between mother and child, even in the midst of extraordinary suffering and distress is the greatest gift. The power of her wisdom, courage, and wit is a lesson for us all.

Lauren Shaw, Director